The weekend is off to a fantastic start. Dinner with friends last night was an amazing treat. Laughs love and lipstick. Anywho...I had a moment last night that I need to get out. Its more so for my benefit. But if you can get something from it kewl

There are honestly people who can be everything to everyone and still manage to be themselves. As you may know I had an issue with this a few months back and rather than adapt to it...I decided to kill that part of me. I have been better for it but I assumed it was a universal evil that no one could master. I was proven wrong last night. My friend flowed throughout the party and catered to the myriad of personalities and issues in the room effortlessly. The part that had me awed was the fact he never lost himself in his dealings with the guests. While the subject and intensity rose and fell; his personal truths never wavered. We were forced to accept him on his terms and there was no negotiation. It was not in a negative way, but a silent resolution of him. We all had the same conclusion, but we all traveled different paths to get there. It was an epiphany for me to know that I can be an addition to someones life and not feel the need to assume their life. I dont think I have that strength right now, so I'll maintain my course. But I love options!!!

Ok time to finish this glass of wine and hit the road...love and kisses.

DJ